BATE BOND BUILD
BATE BOND BUILD
Welcome to BBXL Bate Bros Worldwide
Where Black and Brown men come together in self-pleasure, brotherhood, and truth.
This is our space. Our rhythm. Our release.
Upcoming events
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MEAT & GREET: NEW HAVEN, CT
June 14, 2025
9:00PM-2:00AM
The Tri-State Chapter of BBXL Bate Bros Presents its first-ever event in New Haven, CT. Tickets on sale now!
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The Goon Room Tour
June 21, 2025
9:00PM-3:00AM
BBXL Bate Bros Worldwide joins BATEBANDITXL on the road for The Goon Room Spring Tour. Tickets on sale now!
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Goonz In The Trap: Halloween 2025
October 31, 2025
9:00PM-3:00AM
The Tri-State and Midwest Chapters of BBXL Bate Bros go head to head in a Halloween Bate Bash!
a message from our founder
Welcome to BBXL BATE BROS WORLDWIDE! I am genuinely grateful that the universe allowed our paths to cross for such a moment as this. Affectionately known as BATEBANDITXL, I am the founder and president of this elite organization. Over time, our brotherhood has evolved in many ways, and we are beyond excited to share our new public platform with you all. Since the genesis of our great organization, I have taken much pride in knowing that we have created an inclusive safe haven for like-minded men who enjoy the art of masturbation, specifically for black men and men of color all over the world. Feel free to be your authentic self, whatever that may be, without judgment. Allow your mind to evolve while you engage with your fellow brethren across the globe. Lastly, as you grow with us, it is imperative that you always remember our mission, vision, purpose and most of all our motto: Bate, Bond and Build!
From my heart to yours,
the order of bbxl
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Our vision is to impact the world in which we live, by mobilizing our brotherhood everywhere, both national and international, compelling men of color from various walks of life to pledge their loyalty to our cause, thus normalizing the love of brotherly bonds and the art of masturbation culture worldwide.
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Our mission is to present each and every member as well as prospective members worldwide, with the opportunity to engage in daily dialogue, discussions, and debates relative to masturbation culture and beyond, within the various platforms and events that represent our organization.
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Our purpose is to provide a discrete and inclusive safe space for men of color from all walks of life, regardless of sexual orientation, to express, explore and educate others about sexuality while embracing their love and passion for masturbation culture.
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BATE. BOND. BUILD.
membership reviews
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Being part of BBXL Bate Bros has been an amazing experience. I have been able to meet and connect with bros from across the country and develop real friendships. I have finally found my bros through bating and bate culture. I no longer just jerk off. It is so much more than that. My bate is about connection, intimacy, bonding, friendship and brotherhood.
ES
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It’s Prodigal son here from the Pharaoh Phallic Descendants “PPD” line of 2024. I am approaching my official one year anniversary apart of this amazing brotherhood. The first thing I learned about BBXL was the motto “BATE, BOND and BUILD”. I can honestly say that’s exactly what this previous year entailed. I have created bonds that will last forever. As someone who reached out to this organization for that brotherhood, BBXL has went above and beyond to make sure we stay true to that motto. Every time we link up, it’s a celebration! I’m excited to see what BBXL has in store for the future! Furthermore, I’m honored to apart of this amazing brotherhood!
Quezzy
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When I first went to a BBXL/BatebanditXl experience I was nervous walking in, but the energy, the leadership, and the community made me feel instantly at ease. It was a space where I could truly relax, be free, and fully embrace my sexual desires without judgment. The men? Top tier! The vibe? Unmatched! Safe, sexy, and unforgettable. One thing’s for sure… I’ll definitely keep CUMMING BACK!
Jmajor